A lot of us older ones use the term "married to" loosely to describe
a marriage-like relationship or common-law marriage. They are
still close friends, it's complicated and I didn't feel like parsing
their current status publicly. I'm sorry if I offended anyone.
Here's the link I promised earlier
This is just for Go To readers, its not fully linked yet. I'm waiting
for the site to catch up on spanish translations before we add
more English.